12 Steps to Heal Unworthiness, Brokenness, and Victim Mentality So You Can Find Your Happy

If you’ve spent years holding everything together—but quietly lost yourself in the process… this is your way back.

Self-help books promise quick fixes, and therapy often revisits the past.
But what about the inner work required to rebuild yourself after life breaks you open?

Where are the guides for navigating identity loss, emotional exhaustion, and the quiet unworthiness that creeps in after years of putting everyone else first?

Today, women are doing more than ever—yet feeling less fulfilled than ever.
Happiness has been externalized, outsourced, postponed. But true healing isn’t a destination you arrive at—it’s something you generate from within.

Irina Shehovsov knows this from lived experience. After years of depression, self-blame, and feeling trapped in victim mentality, she made a defining decision: she didn’t come here to suffer. Through deep self-inquiry and relentless inner work, she discovered a practical path back to wholeness.

The Gift Inside is a transformational guide for women who feel stuck in survival mode and are ready to shift into living. This book walks you through a 12-step process to heal unworthiness, release victim mentality, and rebuild your identity from the inside out—physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

You don’t need to become someone new.
You need to return to who you’ve always been.

No matter what you’ve been through, you can reclaim your joy, your power, and your sense of purpose—and create a life that finally feels like yours again.